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Marriage, having children and its various aspects
Recently, a lot of discussion and criticism can be heard in the families around us. And the outbreak of anxiety is seen in the affected families.
The reason is that the times have changed. The boys
and girls of the current generation are equally putting the thought of marriage
and family in second place to the thought of studies and careers, of course
this is due to the need of the times.
The world's population has increased, family needs
have increased, but natural resources have decreased. Women no longer get the
means to run a family according to their needs by sitting at home like in the
previous era, it is said that it is beyond the ability of a man to collect it
alone. Therefore, women also have to help men in earning money.
Once upon a time, marriage was done during childhood.
What we now call child marriage. Different people have different opinions for
and against it. I will not go into that argument. No matter who you are,
whether you are a woman or a man, 'marriage' is a necessary thing for life. A
few people, however, prefer to stay away from this, and those who refrain from
this matter - that is their personal matter.
After marriage, the issue of having children comes up.
Here, many things are involved, including preserving the lineage, hobbies,
hopes, and the beauty of the family. However, nowadays, the decision to have
children has become a big challenge. Because modern women are very hesitant to
have children after calculating their career, studies, and arranging their
married life.
Earlier, it was thought that it was better to have
their first child before the age of 20. Now times have changed. Girls are not
sitting at home like before. Girls are also getting married a little late for
their careers. However, doctors still say that it is better to have their first
child before the age of 25.
The observer said - Some studies show that after the
age of 30, fertility decreases by about 50 percent. After the age of 35, the
number of eggs decreases even more. In addition, pregnancy at this age
increases the risk of gestational diabetes, high blood pressure, prenatal
hemorrhage, and complications during childbirth. Most worryingly, the rate of birth
defects and Down syndrome is much higher as the mother ages. In these cases,
the rate of natural birth decreases and cesarean delivery is more common.
Many people take a long break after having their first
child because they have to organize their careers or, in the current context,
struggle to manage the household in single families. Later, after trying for a
few months to become a mother, they become impatient. In that case, the doctor
says - you have to wait at least six months. Then, if necessary, you can seek
help from a doctor.
The doctor says - To give birth to a healthy child,
the age of both husband and wife should be taken into account. Women should
have their first child by the age of 30 and men by the age of 35. Even then, if
you want to have a child at a slightly older age, it is better to be under the
supervision of a specialist, because these pregnancies can have complications.
However, many women plan to have children at 30 or
later, due to the above-mentioned factors. Therefore, it is beneficial to
prepare if you know the risks of having children at an older age. Just as
career, busy life, and financial well-being are important, a happy family is an
essential part of life. Therefore, it is better to have your first child before
thirty. And if for some reason it is too late, being careful in advance can
avoid danger, which is essential to lead a healthy life.
Doctor's
warning about complications -
As women age, the number and quality of eggs in the
ovaries decreases. As a result, the ability to have children decreases. If
someone waits until a later age, they may face infertility problems. There is a
risk of miscarriage after conception.
Those who become mothers at an older age, especially
after 35 years, have a higher risk of giving birth to a child with Down
syndrome or other birth defects. Moreover, with increasing age, if women
develop diabetes, high blood pressure, or thyroid problems, various
complications can occur during pregnancy.
Doctor's advice -
1. If you want to become a mother after thirty, you
should get a prenatal checkup with an obstetrician and get pregnant as per his
advice. The husband's age is also important here.
2. Folic acid should be started a little earlier.
3. If you have problems like diabetes, high blood
pressure, thyroid problems, anemia, etc., you should get tested and get
treatment.
4. In many cases, aspirin, progesterone support or
vitamins B, C may be needed. Don't be reluctant to do this.
5. In the case of a child, Down's screening at 12 to
13 weeks and anomaly screening at 20 to 22 weeks are very important to see
birth defects.
Be aware – to lead a healthy life.
